My children are currently 5, 3 & 3 years old and by no means are they angels. I do my best to keep the chaos under control. Usually, I am scanning my exits to know the quickest route to get out when things start to go south. As time has gone on and I have a few more trips under my belt I am finding more confidence in my children and myself that we will not have to leave with the white flag raised with screaming kids in tow. But, during those younger years when I had three under three I would have never even though of bring them to a restaurant that didn't have a drive through.
As a mom of young children truly trying everyday to put one foot in front of the other and do the best I can. A compliment like this from a complete unbiased stranger is like wining the lottery. Because, honestly a comment coming from my family just doesn't have the same impact and at times comes with strings attached.
Don't get me wrong I have gotten my fair share of rude defeating comments from strangers also, in which I do my best to let it roll off my back and remember who my true judge is. Remembering that most people have no idea what your life is like and in turn you have no idea what they may be dealing with in their own life. This is why i feel like making assumptions about others can be hard when you can't see the whole picture.
I feel like this encounter was not by accident and came just when I needed it, to help refill my cup. To help me get through the rest of the week being thankful for complete strangers that are willing to step out of their comfort zone and bless someone.
As much as I would like to say that I never need a pat on the back or a good job with that laundry today. When it does happen it is like that reassurance that reminds me that I am placed right where God wants me. The confidence to face another day another restaurant with confidence that maybe it wasn't just a fluke.
I know that there are many other parents out their just like me and next time I pass one in the grocery store with kids in tow I want to be the stranger that says "Good Job". I pray that I never forget these years that I am always able to understand with compassion even when my children are grown.
I challenge you to seek out that person in the restaurant or grocery store and remember how God has blessed you and pass that on. You can make a difference in the life of another, be courageous today.
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